Showing posts with label being positive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label being positive. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 14, 2021

I decided it might be time!


The years are passing, and I am growing older.   Who would have thought thirty years ago that my small newsletter which I named "RoseMary's NoteBook"© would have become an older lady with me?   I had certain hopes but frankly I look back now and am slightly astounded to think that we have come this far.

Thirty years ago women were confronting discrimination.   Race, colour, gender, and my pet-focus at the time - size discrimination.    Have things changed in the years between?  I leave that to you to answer, for I am not quite sure.   In some ways, perhaps, in others definitely not.

That brings me to the situation as at now.   It was in chatting to a number of other women in my age group, and younger, that someone mentioned a couple of my small naIive motivational booklets that I wrote back in those early days.   While the majority of these booklets were focussed on building up the confidence of women-of-size, surprisingly many women of different faiths, cultures and race found the subject matter gave them the inspiration to strive forward, to seek acceptance, and to build upon self-esteem.   

So with that thought in mind, I've decided to allow some of these booklets to be included on this blog.   For while time has marched on, the subject matters dealt with during the past thirty years from my desk have remained constant.

Keep tuned ........





HOW DOES ONE ACT OUTRAGEOUSLY WHEN IN LOCKDOWN?

From the heading of this post one can easily see that being outrageous in lockdown is a little beyond a growing older lady.   In one way or another.

For we're allowed an hour for exercise.   Well that's terrific - if you are still mobile enough to stride along the beachfront (which I would dearly like to do), but with the years come not only some of the "slowing" probems but also increased pain.   Something we have to confront and face, and adjust to, and overcome if we are fortunate enough to do so.

But I am fortunate in having a mobility scooter.   A general little run-around scooter.   It's amazing just how many little corners, and streets and courts, that I find I enjoy wandering within.   

But sometimes I feel as though I would like to break into dance.   Under the large gum trees sprinkling right throughout this area of suburban Melbourne.   Mind you, if I dressed according to how I would like to express my "dance" then maybe I'd be charged with some sort of offence, but seriously I feel like putting on my sequinned neck to ankle garment that I wore when Belly Dancing - back in the good old days!   Believe me, a big girl can move really well when belly dancing!

So I'm left "dreaming", but dreaming is part and parcel of our lives.   And I like to think that even growing older shouldn't in any way impede our memories and our future dreams.  For dreams are essential to us as food and water.




 

Tuesday, May 26, 2020

RETURNING TO THE FOLD

Introduction:   It is now 2020, some 5 years since I posted on this blog.  I'm not sure where the years have gone, of what I've done in betweentimes. However, we are now faced with the Coronavirus, and because this is something that we've not had to face before, (and history is quiet on this score as well), we are doing our best. 

With that said, I've decided to bring my blog up to date, with how an 80 plus year old, is dealing with this situation.   So please read on.

As we confront the Coronavirus pandemic, I’m sure you, like me,  are facing the prospects of very limited  availability of food and essentials, as the shops empty before the shelves have even been filled.  People are panic-buying and even fighting over articles in the supermarkets.  Anger is present in the process.    

As a consequence of my health and circumstances, and again like many thousands of others, I’ve been relying on shopping for my groceries On-Line, however both Coles and Woolworths are today advising that this facility is being “temporarily” cancelled in order to concentrate on the elderly and vulnerable, by which apparently they mean nursing homes, not older and vulnerable people who are striving to be independent.  What this actually means we have yet to find out.

Up until a fortnight ago I was able to catch the small village bus here to go to the nearest shopping centre Forest Hills a number of kms away, where I would purchase one or two articles which were not heavy to carry, but because the shops are almost empty before the bus arrives at the shopping centre, there is a big question mark as to how the older people are really coping.   This is where prayer for others comes into our thinking, for there are always people worse off than ourselves.

As you all know I do not “post” on FaceBook, and tend to rely on emails.   So I’d like to write a small sentence or two about something that happened to me this morning.

Riding my scooter across to the large Chemist Warehouse situated near where I live, I managed to buy a couple of “women’s essentials”, and learned that there was a limit placed upon them.   I accepted that because as I said earlier, there are many other people who need these items as much if not more than myself.   However, as I was coming out of the store, a delightful young lady who’d been behind me in the store, stopped me, and quietly asked, “Would you like me to get you another pack?”   I replied in the affirmative, and said that would be so kind of her.   Some minutes later she came out of the store, and placed TWO packs in my scooter basket.  I began handing her the money, but she said, “No, no thank you, it's a small gift.”   It took some convincing for her to accept a few dollars to put towards a cup of coffee for herself.    I sat there after she had left me to go to her car, unable to move, because of emotions that filled me.  It was her genuine kindness that had affected me.   

Little things.  But in the scheme of things for someone growing older and with increased loss of mobility, a very big thing.  

We are hearing through the media of so many negative stories.   Negativeness has a dreadful habit of dragging us down.   So when something positive occurs, it behoves us to share the story.

Have you recently had something positive done or said to you?   Would you care to share it?    

You see, people are beginning to get scared.   The drought, followed by the dreadful bushfires that raged through six States of this country for the five months from August through December, when people  lost their homes, their businesses, their farms, their orchards, and livestock,  to then be faced with the Coronavirus from January, has left people feeling insecure.   

“Lifting" each other by sharing positive stories is one way we can show that we care for each other.

'til next time